How to ask a woman out
Asking a woman out is not difficult, but it doesn’t come naturally or easy for most of us. But the only reason it is not easy is because we just don’t know how. They don’t teach you these things at school and it is generally not something your parents teach you growing up. It looks so easy on the movies with guys you have all the lines and confidence, but thats the movies… the director already knows how it is going to turn out. There is no script for real life.
You need to be prepared. Sure you can read up and buy books and spend a fortune on how to get laid in 5 easy lessons, but much of the tips are just common sense really. Number one, you need confidence. You can’t buy confidence. You need to develop it by believing in yourself. Almost all of us are shit scared of rejection or humiliation. I can’t tell you it is never going to happen but rest assured the chances are pretty remote. Woman are generally polite and will find a gentle way of turning you down. Most will never try and hurt your feelings, and already have a few favourites to let you down easily. “I have a boyfriend’ , whether she does or not can be a nice way of saying she is not interested without hurting your feelings. Much better than saying ‘I think you are the ugliest man I have ever seen and wouldn’t date you if you were the last man on earth’. But hey what is the worst thing that can happen if you do get shot down in flames? You feel shit for an hour or two, but at least you tried. And again the chances of getting humiliated are very remote. So you have very little to lose and everything to gain. You have to go after the things you want it in life, take a few risks. Or you can stay as you are now, never taking that risk and never having a girlfriend or never finding that love of your life. Its not Russian roulette. The consequences of actually asking a girl out and being rejected are rather minor in the scheme of things. You are not going to die.
You need confidence in yourself first and only you can achieve that in yourself. But here are a few tips to help you out. Remember how much better you feel after a shower and fresh clothes. Start to take a little pride in your appearance. It will do wonders for your self confidence. Get a haircut, lose the beard, cut your nails and get some new clothes. It doesn’t have to cost a fortune. Maybe just a smart new casual shirt or dress jeans. Clean your shoes Start to take a little pride in your appearance and you will start to feel better and notice a slight spring in your step, a little more confidence in yourself than you had before.Work on it. Just one small step at a time, and notice how much better it makes you feel.
Start to like yourself. How can you expect someone to like you if you don’t even like yourself. Don’t focus on the negative. Never focus on the negative. What have you got going for you? You might be tall and skinny and never seem to be able to build muscle no matter what but have a great smile. A smile is more important. Don’t focus on things you can’t change. You have a great smile. Work with that. Use it. Sure woman like a strong man but trust me they are more attracted by self confidence and a smile.
More on building your self confidence soon.
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