New Age Dating? How to find your dream date on tinder:
In this day and age dating is complicated, you can’t just ask someone out anymore, you have to meet them online and have awkward txt conversations before you actually meet. It’s hard finidng the right guy or girl, especially when all you can see is their tinder display pictures and you’re pretty sure he’s the one second on the left but you’re not sure. You want to make sure he’s not a creep, send him a message and see how he responds. If it’s something vulgar, then leave the conversation and remove him from your friends list. If his response is actually part of a normal conversation then keep him on. You might be thinking “but what if he is the one and I removed him because of one rude comment?” Well, technically yes, that may happen, but if he is the one then he will come back around, or he wouldn’t have said that to you in the first place, if you’ve only just met and he’s already saying stuff that is offensive to you, then he probably isn’t the one.
If he only has group photos on his profile, don’t match with him, this is usually a bad sign, a really easy way to catfish because he doesn’t even have to use the same person because you’ll get bored trying to figure out which one is actually him and eventually just decide they’re all attractive anyway. Either that or they’re just not that attractive and they don’t want to show you that. This may sound shallow, but if you can’t even figure out which one he is, then it’s too difficult, you’ll usually just be dissappointed when you find out he’s not the one you wanted.
Don’t be too quick too meet up. It can be very exciting meeting someone you click with online, but this does not always mean it’s going to be perfect in real life. Take your time and get to know them a bit first. Ask general questions and slowly find out things about them to decide whether you like them and want to even bother meeting them. This also stops you from getting into any potentially harmful situation. If you wait too long however, you run the risk of people assuming you’re a catfish or getting catfished yourself, the longer you take to meet people in real life, the more dangerous this scenario becomes.
If you have a bad feeling about someone, trust your gut. It’s easy to say but not so easy to do, you never want to hurt anyone’s feelings by just blocking them out of the blue or never responding to their messages, but you also don’t want to lead people on if you’re not interested or make yourself uncomfortable by constantly talking to these people. Make sure you remove anyone instantly that makes you feel uncomfortable, don’t feel bad, I mean what did they expect right? And if someones just not right for you, or you don’t feel a connection, just let them down nicely and tell them that you don’t think it’s right. Anyone would much rather have that than no reason for being ignored.
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