How to compliment a woman without getting your face slapped. Rule number one, don’t be crass. Never say something like ‘you have really nice tits’ even if she does and that was the only thing that made you notice her from the other side of the room. This will never work, well there will be the odd exception depending on what mood she is in and whether or not she has just had surgery on them again, but scoring a date is a numbers game so this is not a good tactic percentage wise, trust me.
Far better to compliment her on her eyes, or her hair or even her glasses or something. Eyes are best. I don’t think there is a woman in the world who wouldn’t be flattered with a complement on her eyes. Make sure tho that you have dragged your yes off her boobs long enough to notice what color they are and make sure you are looking near her face, preferably into her eyes when you say it. The smarter ones or the ones who are used to getting hit on may well come back with something like “really….. what color are they?’ while looking away or shielding them from view. This is gonna stop you dead in your tracks unless you have a good comeback line and admit you hadn’t really noticed and can dig yourself out of that with some credibility. If you are naturally funny and witty and can pull a comeback off then this may well work in your favor, but I venture to suggest will not for most of us.
No need to be corny and say too much about them, just give the complement and take the lead from what she responds with. Again if you are good with words or can remember lines from a movie or book then by all means compare them to something amazing, but just a plain ‘you know, you have amazing eyes’ will work pretty well, I guarantee it.
This is better than complimenting her on an item of her clothing as lets face it guys only do that when its revealing and that’s why we like it. No other reason unless he is gay or a cross dresser. It will sound shallow anyway, and yeah it is useless unless there is something really different about it. Shoes are fine. Woman love shoes more than men. “awesome red shoes’ will always elicit some sort of response.
If she is walking the dog, complement the dog. Always works and you can even appear sincere if it is a puppy. All puppies are cute and will immediately lick your hand and make a fuss of you, making you look non threatening and a nice person in her eyes by subconscious association, forgetting that all puppies just love someone new.
If you are a bit older and back in the dating game and have kids then chances are finding a partner also with a kid will be more suited to you both, so you can compliment her on her child. What mother, or father for that matter, won’t take pride on someone complimenting their upbringing of the child. Just take a moment to notice something nice and come right out and say it to her. ” I couldn’t help noticing just how well your boy gets on with all the other kids her in the playground. That is your boy I assume?” You get the idea. A compliment followed by a question which she has to answer, and this gentleman leads to a conversation. She has no idea the little snot is just a pawn in your game to get her phone number. Be creative.
So don’t be corny or crass. These are just some suggestions on how to compliment a woman.
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