So you have made the decision to find a beautiful Ukrainain woman to be your future wife. You have arranged to travel to Ukraine and meet up with one you have been corresponding with, either directly or through an agency.
You have done your due diligence and have not been suckered in to all the various scams out there. This woman does exist. Her photos are not that of a glamour model. She doesn’t sound too good to be true, but she does look amazing.
Although her English is not great, she sounds sincere when you have chatted numerous times on Skype, and skype with video, not just voice… Her camera is not faulty every time or she doesn’t have one, or her internet is playing up yet again.
She laughs and smiles a lot. She asks meangiful questions about you and your life, your likes, your dislikes. Some of her questions might seem a little direct, but that is how they are and you should not be offended by them. She is seeking honest answers and you should give them.
You have not embelished the truth more than just a little. It is all going to come out eventually you know. Your age is real. Did you really think she will not suspect or find out eventually. No point in lying. Don’t make out you earn or have more money than you do. If you have children you need to have told her. If you live with your mum, you should have told her already.
She is not desperate to leave her worn torn country but has had enough and would certainly entertain the idea of packing up and leaving all her friends and family to start a new life in your country. It is a big step and not something she would consider lightly.
She has not once asked you for money for that urgent operation for her sick relative, or just been robbed and lost all her money the week after you first corresponded with her, or asks you to send her money for a plane ticket and visa so she can come and visit you. And to please use Western Union as the banks are not reliable to get money any other way. You know how it goes by now.
She seems genuinly interested in you, asks meaningful questions to get to know you better, and has not fallen head over heels in love with you after the second letter exchanged.
The age gap between you, while large by western standards is not excessive and she is only 10 or 15 years younger than you.
You have a good feeling. She is not perfect, and you have discussed it with a trusted mate, even showed him some of the letters to view from an unbiased, unclouded perspective that you are not being taken in here.
Sure you have some doubts in the back of your mind that this may not work out. But just as you need to date many women in your own country or culture to find that special woman that you just know is the right one for you and someone you want to spend the rest of your life with no matter what.
Next week. Planning your actual first face to face meeting. What not to do.
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