How do I get started in online Adult Dating

How do you get started in adult online dating? Good question. There are so many to choose from. Which is best? Which is the cheapest? Which is the best value for money? Which one is the best for my country? All very daunting, so here are a few tips to help you decide.

First you need to choose one of the bigger dating sites. But biggest is not always best you say. Well not true in this case. No matter how great a profile you have it is no good if no one is going to see it, so you want to choose a dating site with as many members as possible. This is why we think adultfriendfinder is the best there is fullstop. It presently has over 30 Million members worldwide. Yup that’s right over 30 million, so there is bound to be many of them in your country and even your city. While a smaller site might be cheaper or look nicer you are wasting your time if there are none from your city.

Talking of cheaper… Adultfriendfinder  is free to join and many or probably most are. They should be free to join so you can take a look around and see what is to offer before you pay anything. Be wary of any that you have to give your credit card just to take a look!! What have they got to hide?

Don’t put too much info on your profile to start with. You can always add it later. Photos: they will all tell you that profiles with photos give x times as many responses. Yeah I am sure they do but sometimes do you really want to put your photo out there for everyone to see?  Maybe this is something that can be shared to those who you just want to see it and have earned your trust. Your call. Some people will be happy having photos out there in cyberspace. I for one would rather not. Remember your ex is also out there maybe..or her friends or workmates certainly are…

Make yourself look good in your profile but be wary of embellishing it too much. Remember she is going to meet you one day if you want to hook up and she is not going to go much further if she is expecting tall dark and handsome when you are none of these. Don’t run yourself down of course, but be like a real estate agent and show off your good points and be suitably vague about your other not so good traits.

Don’t over estimate your worth. Sure you will have more chance of actually meeting up if she thinks you are rich, but if you have this image then she won’t hang around once she discovers the truth, or worse still this will attract more scammers to your profile…and trust me there are a lot out there trolling for their next victim.

Many profiles will be fake. You can soon suss out the obvious ones but some will be a little more cunning…or very cunning. Do you really think that a 25 year old blonde beauty with a gorgeous figure is really after a 40 something bald overweight guy for fun times… Yeah right. So  be very skeptical. Sounds too good to be true…She probably is. You might actually be corresponding with a guy…and worse looking than you at that. Run her photo thru google images and see if her photos pop up somewhere else as someone else. Yup, you can search on images just like you can do a regular word search. Just drag and drop the image. Amazing. Scammers use images they have grabbed from anywhere on the net and share them amongst themselves. Be wary of someone who says she is in your city but presently somewhere else or is intending to move there again. A sure sign that something is not right.

OK. More again tomorrow.

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