The Dating Blues: Don’t Let Them Get You
All single people have a shot of going through those dating blues. Those times when it seems like you’ll just never find the right person for you. But you can get through those and take your time to find the right one, instead of just the one to fill a space in your life.
It will be a huge mistake if you look for someone to only fill that void. Often it will be a doomed relationship from the beginning. One that will not last long or not a life-time anyway and have you back in the dating world once again after it has ended.
Never place too much emphasis on finding the perfect person. Because if you do that you fill those blues slipping up on you quickly. Too much pressure is something that can make you settle for a person who just isn’t what you’re really looking for.
Instead sit back and have fun on those dates, but don’t be promiscuous by any means. Sex can often cloud one’s judgment and make them feel like they are attached to someone, more than what they may really be. Yes, there are such things as relationships that are based strictly on sex. If it’s great sex you may feel that you are in love with someone, but you could actually be in lust with them instead. That will end as soon as the sex becomes mundane and your lust peters out to leave you with nothing but a wish of having found someone you have a better connection to overall.
Not saying that you can’t have a relationship that contains both great connections with each other and fabulous sex. In fact, if you find the right person you should be able to say that your communication and sex life are something that are never lacking. It’s those things that many people will often find missing though when they place too much pressure on themselves.
Women who are wishing they could have a child can often find themselves stuck with the wrong person rather quickly too. That desire can be a strong thing and one that will often make them blind to whether they are really happy with a guy they pick to be the father of their children. Finding the right mate that can make you happy, and be a great father as well can be something altogether different.
But with patience and time you should be able to find the right one for the job, and the guy that will set your world on fire too!
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